Life will give you anything you ask of it

Know what you want. It is most important to know what you are asking for, then ask specifically. Saying, "I want a relationship" is vague. Be specific in the details of your life.

Find a mentor with the right tools. You don't have to reinvent the wheel to achieve your dreams. Find someone who is successful and model them.

Take massive action. Having the right tools and knowing what you want won't get you anywhere unless you move into action! Build a massive action plan with specific measurable steps to achieve your goals. Then be accountable to your plan and go out and do it!

Each moment is as it is

Resisting the moment as it is creates upset. Upset, fear, anger, sadness, disappointment, irritation and so on- is an inside job created when the world fails to run as we planned. Feelings are not caused by events, but your perception of events. A person who enjoys a roller coaster ride strengthens their immune system with every twist and turn. A person who perceives the ride to be a suicide attempt stresses their immune system. The roller coaster itself doe not create joy or upset, it is just the trigger for the feelings.

Making waves

Everything I've ever done wrong is the reason I'm driven
Touch life, leave a mark each day
Creating a ripple or a wave
Splash around and leave them talkin'

The people we have been
The life we will become

human doing vs. human being

Are you a human doing? Lists, schedules, planners?

When we operate as if living were a task to be completed, we forget to be. Be a parent, a sister, a father. Just be you.

Be authentic to who you are, but don't forget to own what you do.

Be a human being, not just a human doing.

put your butt on the line

It's time to stop surviving and start living. Life is not a spectator sport. Instead of allowing life to happen to you, start to make your life happen.

What would your life look like if you were truly in each momemnt?